The Real Issue With Men and Porn

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Guys, can we talk? It's hard out there for us Y chromosome carriers, isn't it? Sex abuse scandals are once again forcing conversations about sex to the front and center. Being forced to talk about problems surrounding sex isn't high on the … [Read more]

Persecution or Clanging Cymbal?

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"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me." -Matthew 5:11 Persecution can be a twisted badge of pride. Rather than being a comfort to one facing systemic, targeted hostility, … [Read more]

Safe Space May Be Hurting Us

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This morning I read a fascinating article in the New York Times criticizing the idea of "safe space." These days we hear a lot of talk about wanting to create space where people feel safe to be themselves. Even in the church, this idea of creating a … [Read more]